I watched this movie last night "He's just not that into you". It was quite a pleasant little film. I enjoyed how it showed all those wonderful signs that indicate the just how a person isn't diggin you. Its funny our society. We think its better to just smile, lie and walk away, hoping that we never have to see that person we just made feel really good about themselves when really they just aren't that into them. What's that about really? There are subtle ways to give someone the boot ya know? I'm a firm believer of say what you mean and mean what you say. There isn't this vague I'm not sure what he meant feeling when you're done talking to me. I have run into so many people in my life that you meet casually by whatever means and you're sitting across from them and they are your best friend. You trade numbers, say lets keep in touch and well basically your paths never cross again. I've always been that person that if I say I'm going to call you I call you. I just hate that people often time say what they don't mean. For example if you're in that situation and I've just met you and we are seemingly hitting it off or whatever and I say hey give me your number so I can call you….. I will call you! Lol… but I've met some people and in the very same situation u get their number u call them and they never answer or call you back or respond to text messages and well all the while I'm thinking to myself why did they do that? You run into them at the mall and you mention you call and all that other stuff and they laugh and say I never got your messages…..REALLY? My favorite character from the movie was GIGI… I feel like her. When I like someone I like them.. There is no guess work involved and you know it. I will admit that she was a bit on the crazy stalker side which I'm not that way but it was cute to watch. So why am I talking about this? I have no idea! But I just wanted to say to everyone in the world who has falsely asked for a phone number or said yes let's keep in touch or that I will call you and all that other jazz just to be "nice", please don't be nice. In the long run those of us like GIGI who believe and hang on your every word will ultimately be disappointed. My motto, a little hurt today is better than a whole lot of hurt later!
Just some thoughts and ideas I'm tossing around.... Why am I talking about these things? I have no idea...
About Me
- EveryDayGayBoy
- TEXAS, United States
- Hi, I’m the Every Day Gay Boy… I realize that I probably in no way really and truly represent the many gay men in America but none the less I am one of them and I'm sharing my thoughts about the gay life and everything else. I hope that in some way small or great I can positively change someone’s day, year or life. Why don't I have a clear face picture? Well what I look like isn't so much a thing I want to share with you all. I would like to maintain a semi-private life. You'll much rather see my chest anyway! So go ahead read on and as my mentor and role model Jerry Springer would say “please be good to yourself and each other”
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