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Hi, I’m the Every Day Gay Boy… I realize that I probably in no way really and truly represent the many gay men in America but none the less I am one of them and I'm sharing my thoughts about the gay life and everything else. I hope that in some way small or great I can positively change someone’s day, year or life. Why don't I have a clear face picture? Well what I look like isn't so much a thing I want to share with you all. I would like to maintain a semi-private life. You'll much rather see my chest anyway! So go ahead read on and as my mentor and role model Jerry Springer would say “please be good to yourself and each other”

Monday, January 4, 2010

THE RACE CARD (pt 1)

"I fuk black dudes...If they are worthy. People are racist because of their personal experiences. The Latino, asian, white, pacific islander, African immigrants (black)all say the same about American blacks. Lazy...dont want to work, Steal your shit, Sue the shit out of you if they work for you, fall down in the grocery store and sue, Assault you, take your wallet, murder you, dont pay loans back to banks or individuals, beg for quarters, argumentative and way too angry, food stamps, subsidized housing, POLICE YOUR OWN AND QUIT BLAMING SLAVERY FROM 280 years ago. Mexicans come here with no ID, whatever they are wearing, and in 2 years have a new Tahoe, home with their family, pay bills, and fit in. Blacks have lived here their whole life and have a dart pass and lone star card. Blacks need to realize they are their own worse enemy. It is not skin color, because the Nigerians, camaroonians, sudanese, that are black say the same about American blacks. THISA IS WHY WE ARE ALL RACIST! CLEAN YOUR OWN RACE UP AND QUIT BLAMING THE WHOLE WORLD. WE ARE SICK OF HEARING THIS CRAP! YOU DESERVE THIS TIRADE because I had to read about racism on a sex hook up site! Change it--no one wants to hear you WHINE --Sounds niggery to me. And yes, I said it..The "N" word..I hear it on TV everyday, radio, I Pod, movies, everytime I walk past a group of Blacks talking, so dont lecture me and others for saying it too. I hear it at least 50 times a day. Makes me sick to hear it--Either no-one say it or everyone says it. I choose everyone until you all stop making me hear it Geesh!"

This was sent to me once on a site I was on. It was a hookup site for gay men and I’d posted a profile there that stated my aggravation with other profiles that spoke to race preferences. I’m always slightly bothered when I have taken the time to actually read what someone has said vs just looking at their picture and responding to that and have to read “only into White, Latino, Asian, Indian, but no blacks sorry just a preference” or something similar. I couldn’t tell you why I’m so bothered by the “race preference” thing. I guess because I’m really being discriminated against? I can’t control the color of my skin. It makes me feel bad because I feel like something is wrong with being Black. Well from the looks of it according to who we will call “Jim” there is something very wrong with being black. When I read this I was mortified. Is the general consensus by non Black American people?
If you take a man and you tell him his whole life that he is nothing and you treat him like trash and like he was just like that nothing thing you said he was tell me what will he teach his children? If he teaches his children the only thing he ever knew which was that he was nothing and by default then all of his seeds must be nothing then what will his children be? Sure slavery happened years and years and years ago. How convient though we forget that in America that segregation only ended in the 1960s, not even 50 years ago. Mind you for the record slavery ended in 1865 that’s only 145 years ago not the 280 years this moron claimed. So enslave a race of people for a few hundred years then, set them free only to tell them they aren’t allowed to commune with you and finally when they get “equal rights” all is supposed to be forgotten? Oh and let’s not pretend that just because the laws changed that attitudes did as well. Discrimination was very much a reality in the US right after the segregation laws were overturned and still exist today.
Sure times have changed. I would never negate the progress that has been made in America between the races. I also would say that there is still more to be done. I know that as the older people begin to die off and along with them their discriminatory sentiments their teachings will hopefully diminish in numbers and even one day be none existent. The same can be said of the anger, resentment and defeatist attitude that’s still present in the American Black culture. Prejudice is still real people! Blacks may not still be slaves or openly discriminated against but discrimination still happens undercover and sometimes unawares. We can call them preferences if we want to and I intend to explore in more depth that whole idea as I seek real UNDERSTANDING. I just wanted to address this statement as when it was written to me I ignored it. I complained to the service I was using of course and this member was removed from the site. I’m sure he opened another profile under a different name and is still spewing his stupidity on others.
Well America this guy is speaking for you! There’s always one right? So in response I just wanted to say…. If Blacks are all these things Jim, and certainly there are some unsavory people in the world but of all races not just Blacks, where did they learn this behavior? I will never forget as a young man while I was working a white man told me,” it’s best to wait until the last minute to pay your debts, everyone knows that’s smarter.” More often than not it is a white man that’s embezzling millions of dollars from the company he’s working for. I suppose as Blacks we should be more ambitious when we steal. As far as welfare more whites are on welfare than any other race followed by blacks. I guess we all have something to learn from Mexicans? I won’t even address the rest of the ridiculous statements found in here. My point is “Jim”, the enslavement, discrimination, degradation of Blacks in America is owned solely by the whites who committed and continue to commit these acts. We were made the monster you now hate by your own doing. It lasted hundreds of years in some form or another. Do you think in 40 or 50 years the stain, the hurt and pain would be faded? Tracy Chapman sings a song entitled “Bang Bang Bang” that I like and is a fitting conclusion to my post….
”What you go and do
You go and give the boy a gun
Now there ain't no place to run to
Ain't no place to run

Now we'll all be at his mercy
If he decides to hunt us down
Cause there ain't no place to run to
Ain't no place to run

If he wants the chances that you took from him
And nothing that you own
Then there'll be no place to run to
There'll be no place to run

And if he finds himself to be
A reflection of us all
Bang bang bang
He'll shoot us down

Before you can raise your eyes to read
The writing on the wall
Bang bang bang
He'll shoot you down

Before you can bridge the gulf between
And embrace him in your arms
Bang bang bang
He'll shoot you down”

1 comment:

  1. I agree with everything you said. What makes what he said racist is not that he said some black people mess up, it is that he somehow holds the behavior of random black people you don't even know against you. Black people don't get to be individuals. A white guy walks into a school and kills 30 people, then that is one crazy guy, wonder what made HIM crack. A black person commits a crime and its ALL black people are like that. ALL black people need to make that person act right because we participate in group think. And we don't just get told this by white people, I've had Asian and African immigrants say the same (in more polite language) to my face. I've been on match.com and read profiles where the guy selects every race but black. It sucks but at least they are letting me know in advance so I don't waste my time. Funny thing is these guys will still message me and probably wonder why I don't respond.

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